This three-minute clip of Connell in Normal People should be shown in schools around the country

By James Fenton

May 26, 2020 at 11:44am

This three-minute clip of Connell in Normal People should be shown in schools around the country

This week, Normal People deals with the topic of suicide and the devastating effects it has on people who have lost someone close to them.

Viewers on BBC last night saw Paul Mescal, who plays Connell in Normal People, break down while speaking to a therapist. The scene should be seen as a triumph for mental health awareness as not only does it normalise asking for help, it sensitively displays the benefits of telling someone how you're feeling.

Spoilers below...

In the scene, Connell reveals to the therapist that he struggles to click with people before he is asked whether this is a new problem. Connell, who has moved from Sligo to study in Dublin's Trinity College, gradually begins to speak about how he felt while going through secondary school in his home town.

He goes on to say that he used to feel alienated among his group of friends and that when he moved to the capital, his expectation to meet like-minded people never really came to pass.

It's often said of young men that we aren't great at telling people what's on our minds and while watching, I for one felt I could relate to some of Connell's feelings. In just three minutes, Mescal and the Normal People team displayed to millions of viewers the importance of speaking out about things that are weighing us down. It's not often that I'll reach out to an actor to praise their work but last night I felt compelled to do so...

I wasn't the only one, with Twitter users rushing to commend the show and Mescal in particular...

Mescal and his co-star Daisy Edgar-Jones have won universal praise for their performances in the series and while many of the headlines have been centred around whether the pair's sex scenes are "too much", this week Normal People gave us another reason to call it one of the most important TV shows in years.

The clip in question from episode 10 of Normal People can be found below...

If you're affected by the content in Normal People this week, you can call these numbers:

Pieta House - 1800 247 247 

Samaritans - 116 123


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